Why I Hate Stalkers

Aku paling pantang, kalau aku tak usik org ... Pastu kau nak kacau aku lagi ... It's over, I get over it ... He's totally over it, why can't you ??

One of the problem in blogging, is stalkers ... There's 2 types of stalkers, a good stalkers & the envy stalkers ...
Good stalkers ni, normally are pure readers ... Yg found your blog while googling/searching for information, & felt in love with you blog ... They're definitely nice la, tak kacau org ...

While envy stalkers ni, is those normally who know you ... Might be a close friend (but they's actually just pretend to be friends), or a friend to a friend ... Or else, org yg memang dengki, busuk hati - org tak kenal pun nak main hentam jek kan ... Kalau kau bagus, buat jek la blog sendiri kan ...

I wanna talk about a friend to a friend, aku tak tau la ape yg kau nak emo sgt dgn aku ... Aku tak kenal kau, & you're obviously a twisted bitch - I figure that when they said you've already invited everybody to your wedding, somehow I didn't hear the announcement ?? The announcement was made when I'm away for a while, so I figure  - she don't want me to come ... This is just my judgement la, kau ni shady ...

Ok fine, we're not even friends ... Aku, dgn member kau dah broke up for months now ... Dr kau t'lompat2 clubbing dgn tunang kau (lets not mention you're using my connection), sampai kau dah kawin skarang ... Ade aku kacau kau ke ?? Aku 'pretend' to be nice, ambek barang aku kat rumah kau ... Then aku declare we broke up, tu pun just once ?? Lepas tu aku xpenah nak contact kau, or jantan kau ... Or jantan member kau, & aku xde pulak t'gedik2 mintak kene invite to ur wedding walaupun aku bole just send a msg kat kau ... Kau nak ape dowh ??

Aku kalau nak kutuk kau, melambak aku bole kutuk ... Your over did green wedding, your 'best friend' pun didn't attend your wedding ... Tapi aku tak penah kutuk kau kot ... The post about your friend yg obviously tak puas hati dgn aku tu, & condemn aku every single time we met - I've removed it the moment we broke up ...

Biler org kacau laki kau, kau pandai pulak meroyan kat fb kan ?? Kau kacau org kau tak pk ?? Kalau korang tak reti nak respect/layan org nicely, kenape nak harap org lain treat korang that way pulak ?? This is life, what goes around comes around ... & always remember karma is a bitch ... One day bile kene kat batang hidung sendiri, ingat2 sikit ape kau buat kat org ... Jangan nak menyesal & blame org lain pulak ... All the best to you guys ...

Aku dah block 1keturunan, puas hati aku ...

Ugly Thought

For one second, terlintas niat jahat dlm hati - 'I can simply post a comment & screw someone's life' ... But I didn't, because I'm just not that type of person ...

Go ahead, satisfy yourself ... Call me a coward ... I admit, I don't have the guts to do so ... Even I do feel everything is so unfair to me, even I feel like all they do is disrespecting me ... 

But all that matters to me is that I can sleep at night, without worrying about what I said might cause to other person ... & not feeling guilty for the rest of my life for destroying someone else's life ...

You guys enjoy the rest of the night, bye ~

Tips2 Menjadi Pengapit yang Cemerlang

Haha, title mengong mintak pelempang ...

I just wanna share my experience jadik pengapit, actually I read a few good advice from Miss X's blog ... At least ade la sikit preparation (mentally) before I jumped on the plane & leave for the wedding ... But seriously, it's a lot harder than you I expected ... You can set things in your mind, what you should & shouldn't do ... But bile sampai time event, there's a lot of things going on ... & you can't really control everything ...

So here's a few things you can do when you're holding the responsible as the Maid of Honor:

1. Perfect Attire

Standard advice - 'jangan lawan pengantin' ... Tapi jangan la terlampau simple sampai nampak mcm nak pegi class/the bride tangkap muat one of the guest suruh tolong kipas ... Baju bride's maid jugak main peranan to complete the whole look of the combination - the bride's & groom's attire, pelamin & the theme ...

But actually, you should really consider a comfortable outfit ... Something that will be easy for you to run back upstairs to fetch anything t'tinggal, & whatsoever ... In my case, aku kene turun bawah check kete pengantin dah sampai/siap ke belum & run back upstairs ... Jangan tanye ape fungsi best man itu, nanti bole menimbulkan kemarahan ...

Base on experience, memang rase agak selfish sebab lebih mengambil berat tentang kain yg meleret2 compared to the bride ... & the bride kind of taking care of herself ... So, comfortable dress is a must ...

2. Extra Large Handbag


Jangan ngade nak kutuk handbag merah aku yg attention stealer tu, sebab ianya memang dibawakan khas utk the reception ... Sebab dlm tu, bole letak 1kotak tissue ... 2-5bijik henfon, & extra shoes haku skali sumbat dlm tu ...

3. Extra (Comfortable) Shoes


Because you will be standing for most of the time, so aku suggest korang bawak la extra shoes/sandals ... & more, sebab korang kene tunggu a few hours sampai majlis selesai ... It's a relieve to have a comfortable shoes to survive the rest of the evening in the hall ... & lagi la kalau korang pakai kasut baru yg menggigit2 itu  ...

4. Proper Arrangement

Seeloknya, standby tissue/baby wipes bagai in position before the event started ... Suruh la sape2 letak tissue/baby wipes tu somewhere nearby the spot u're standing, supaye tak nampak mcm kau hangkut kulur-kilir baby wipes tu ...

Muke suspen tissue dah habes ...

Pastu handbag tu pun, sepatutnya di arrange properly ... So xde la appear too much in the picture, sampai jadik foul item biler select picture to print ...

 Handbag merah ...

 Lagi ...

& lagi ...

Sebaiknya, dtg tengok the hall/setting the night before or the morning before the wedding ... So bole request /arrange for something ... Like ask one of the bride's maid standby pegang hand bouquet mase merenjis ... Or find the perfect spot utk letak tissue, whatsoever you need during that event atas pelamin ...

5. Emotionally, Physically & Mentally Prepared

Make sure you have enough sleep, tak payah nak beauty sleep sgt ... Just enough that your face didn't look dull, & you can strike a proper pose for the pictures ... In most of the pictures, I look fat & hunched back because I was not standing properly ... So make sure you look good, because bride's maid/best man are photographed as often as the bride & groom ...

I guess that's it for now, emo jap endon dah goal ... Come on guys, I don't wanna hear Indonesian songs all day on Hitz ... Cukup la kat Hot fm jek ... Nite ~

Bride's Maid Dress: Part II (by Rico Rinaldi)

1st of all, sorry sgt sebab lambat giler review ... Dah 2months, heh ... I have to do justice to the dress, tak kan la nak upload gambar from my 3.2megapixel bb kan ... Give credit to the dress, & the designer jugak ... & thanks to the bride, susah2 hantar the pictures through email sampai 4folder ...

Yahhh, maut ... Hahahahahhah ...

Even the bride's concern about kain yg meleret2 ... Pengantin xtrip, pengapit yg lebih2 ...

Aksi pijak kain, part I ...

Aksi pijak kain, part II ... Kaver2, jln laju2 ... 

Haha, dengki ... Gambar ni hide the best man ...

With the bride ...

I should relax, & stop holding the dress ... Sebab it looks just fine ...

I don't have to review more about Rico, you girls already know his talent ... Overall, sgt la puas hati ... When I first stepped into his studio, neves la ... Sape tak neves kan, jumpe designer ... He's not there mase tu ... Sebab there's a lot of time before the wedding, we managed to arrange a few meetings ...

Biler he asked about my budget, I mcm froze kejap ... Aku memang fail sikit bab spot question ni, balik mandi/nak tido baru t'pikir what I should answer ... 

My original plan, memang nak hantar kat Kimie Kajang jek ... Tapi entah mcm mane sumer kedai kat Kajang mase tu tutup, kedai yg satu tu bukak ... But you know I'm not going to send anything else to them ... & I've already asked makcik kat Tum Tailor, die yg suruh hantar kat designer sebab I request design mengade sgt ... ;p

So according to that plan, my budget is around rm400-600 jek la ... But I'm sending it to a designer kot, so tak kan la nak that price jugak kan ... Dalam hati b'harap, please jgn mintak mahal2 ... Heh ...

Tapi I already set a limit to myself jugak la, kalau Rico quote over 2k ... Memang aku buat muke tak malu pegi collect kain balik ... Hehe ... B'pijak di bumi yg nyate la kan, kalau sampai 2k memang aku tak mampu nak bayar ... 

The price Rico quote for me, kire lebih sikit from my budget la ... But with that beadings, dengan aku pegi fitting sampai 3kali kot ... There nothing more I could ask for ... I'll definitely recommend him to adik bradik, sahabat handai & sedare mare ... I think if korang bace review org lain pun, memang sumer akan ckp - highly recommended ...

I wanna say this from the moment I met him on the 1st meeting, tapi malu ... Heheh - he looks so much better in person ... Different la, from those pictures from google & newspaper ... Kat mate aku la ...

What else korang nak tau ?? Anything just pm me la ...

kthanksbye ~

Bride's Maid Dress: Part I

As I mentioned in this post (----> Bride's Maid's DressES), I'm wearing my graduation dress for the solemnization ... This dress made by my tailor kat Tangkak, as I mentioned in this post (----> Baju Kurung Moden: Part III) pulak ... This is one of the cheongsam inspired neck done by the tailor, if you're curious to know how it turned out ...

Enjoy the pictures ...

Feeling Vanidah Imran jap ...

I wonder, how I manage to look fat ...

Seriously, I don't understand why I look so plump in all the picture ... Padahal a few days earlier I look super duper skinny, dah mcm skeleton ... 

Sexy sgt, 18sx ni ...

Tu jek, thanks ... Hehe ...

Baju Kurung Moden: Part III

Dlm schedule yg pack, I took the trouble to drive all the way to Tangkak for my next project - kurung moden, chiffon + lace patching ... Leave home agak lambat, almost 11am baru gerak ... I reached there at 12.30pm ... Xde ngade2 nak gi tgk2 kain ke, whatsoever ... Trus gi kat the tailor, normally I parked kat dlm bus stand Tangkak tu ... But since it's Friday, I manage to find a space right in front the shop ...

Pictures ...

 Promote myVi sket ...

 Close up ...

 Next to Watson, Tangkak ...

No. tepon t'pakse dirahsiakan, ;p ...

Heh, siap show off purse & level poyo diri sendiri yg main sudoku ... But I really wanna share with you guys about the cost, which is tersangat la murah & berbaloi2 ... Chiffon full lining, dgn lace patching all together rm160 ... Tu pun lace patching tu die just estimate, kalau lebih die pulang duit lebih balik ?? 

I was considering to send it kat Tum Tailor yg dekat dgn rumah ni jek sebenar nyer ...Tapi since t'sgt penat & overslept that day when I just arrived from kk ... Tak sempat la nak jumpe makcik tu before I went back to Kerteh ... Kebetulan I have to fetch the rabbits kat Merlimau, & buat2 ambil my brother kat poli Melaka ... So tade la membazir sgt my trip smalam ...

When she asked about budget lace patching tu, actually my budget is around rm120 ... But rm60 je die mintak ?? Memang la I don't mind pegi balik Tangkak, utk tempah baju ... Sebab I already estimate the cost kalau area Bangi ni, at least it will cost me nearly 3hundred ...

Tum Tailor

For sepasang kurung moden - rm80

Kurung moden with lining - rm160 (x2 the price, sebab lining kene gunting & jahit like another pair)

Lace patching - rm120 (this is the price mase I did a simple kebaya, she patched in a few flowers from the bottom piece)

Total estimated - rm280 at least

DzulldeClassique

For sepasang kurung moden - rm150 (with lining utk kain mermaid saje)

Kurung moden with lining - tak penah tanye, since I had bad history sending my sutera to them (refer this post)

Lace patching - rm180 (this is the price for simple sulam kat hujung lengan & kaki baju, so I figure lace patching pun will cost somewhere there)

Total estimated - rm480 simply, aite ??

Chia Lee Sekolah Jahitan

For sepasang kurung kurung moden - rm 50

Kurung moden with lining - rm100

Lace patching - rm60

For me, sgt b'baloi la ... Especially for chiffon or anything yg required lining & gedik nak lace patching ke beadings bagai ... Like my project this time, since it's not for wedding ke engagement ... Rase mcm membazir nak spend mahal2 for a pair of baju kurung moden ...

Plus, I'm really satisfied with the output ... Just sometimes, their finishing especially on the neck tak brape kemas ... Kalau normal baju kurung, all the time it turned out superb ... Out of 3 chengsam neck I requested, 2 turned up well (made of lace & thai silk) ... Just the one made of chiffon mcm xbrape kemas sgt ... 

I can't wait to share the output, jgn risau ... I requested to fetch them in 2weeks ... Hahah, ngade kan ... Nak lace patching bagai, but bagi 2weeks jek ... Till then, enjoy more pictures ...

 Myvi nak publicity gak ...

 Fuel up, tak yah kutuk nape myvi aku standard BM nak pakai ron97 ... Bapak aku bagi budget tuang minyak tu, kau hade ?? Scratch kat bumper blakang, kene langgar ngan student MFI kat roundabout exit Toll Bangi mase balik dr wedding pPop ...

& finally, the rabbits ... Kembar lain mak, lain bapak c Lilo ... Ni tgh kesedapan b'rehat2 kene air-cond all the way back ...

Hint 1

I was 14, when my family moved to Sabah ... On the way to the airport, I feel like crying ... I feel like bursting into tears, but I didn't ... Because there's no solid reason to do so ... & I'm still staying in Semenanjung, finishing my junior high school ...

Then I completely moved to Kota Kinabalu during senior high school, I was so stubborn objecting my mum's wish to stay in the same school ... Because I feel like I wanna take charge on my own future ... It was a blast when I was 16, I was completely happy the whole time there ... I can't even remember now how I feel back then as I'm leaving all my dear friends in Peninsular ...

Then I have to leave again, back to Semenanjung by the end of the year ... Since my parents got transferred to Lahad Datu ... I was so happy to go back at that time, get closer to my bf of 3years since I was 14 ... & yet, none of the events hav been so emotional ...

Growing up made life not easy, more option choose ... More obligation & plans, tight you down to stay around for quite sometimes ... It's getting harder to jump on the plane & leave everything behind, it's just not that easy as it was when I was 17 ...

I'm about to get transferred back to kl, it was something I've been waiting for the last 6months ... Somehow it feels so hard to start packing my things ... I wish everything is easy like it was back then when I'm 17, or when I was leaving kl for this job at the 1st place ...

I guess I don't really have something interesting in my plans for next year in kl, that's what make it so hard to leave something that I'm comfortable with ...

Heh, mokcik ... Ape kah so emo ... Just find something interesting then, get urself excited ... Or try to live ur life the whole year without plans in ur head ... I'm sure there won't be so much damage, ease up a little bit & enjoy things provided right in front of me ...

I'm just a bit emotional lately, this maybe another 'cry for attention' post ... Hahah ... Soon I'll be fine ...

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Hell No

I have a plan I kept secret in my mind, somehow I just got set back as daddie kind of saying NO NO on that ... It's not a complete NO, but daddie kind of giving me a conditional approval on that ...

I have to confirm a job before I can do so ...

Seems like my schedule post have to be reschedule for a later time ... Sorry guys, so much for secrecy lately ... Since I realize there's more stalkers than I actually knew ... Till then, I'll keep you posted ...