Borneo: Day 3

After sleeping the whole night, the day before reception agak boring ... Well, for the afternoon ... Since my mum left for Kuala Penyu, so xde la nak menyibuk2 tumpang my mum sopping kan ...

Owh, btw ... I did, went shopping dgn my brother ... Went to Centre Point for high tea @Secret Recipe, but I ended up kat Bodyshop's Warehouse sale ... Hahah, heaven giler ... I got all the make up (which I don't really need) for 60% off ... All the eye shadows, I only pay about RM12 for those which normally cost around RM30 ...

Hahah, that's the downside of the sales I guess ... I mean, you don't really need a darker color blusher ... Or another shade of bronze eye shadow ... Tapi sebab sales, you tempted to buy ... God, I am a shopaholic ...

After what I can called 'mostly make-ups' shopping, I spent my brother a nice lunch in Secret Recipe ... My brother ni cheap skate sket, so he really appreciate this kind of outing ... At least that's what I understand from his facial expression ... Hahah ...

Then I went for another round normal price merchandise @Bodyshop, this one for those I really need la ... Like my dad's perfume, concealer & make up base ... Owh, I really need to check my credit card statement !!!

My shopping activities bukan la satu perkara yang saya ingin highlight kan di sini ... Hahah, so later that afternoon ... I end up shopping for the newly weds gift ... It's quite difficult to choose, since the couple didn't stay together after the wedding ... The wife stays in KK, while the husband's working in Shah Alam ...

This is the question I always asked to my friends who's getting married - what's your plan after marriage ... & normally they said, "Slow2" ... Heheh, when you buy something for them ... Of course you expect them to make full use of the gift kan ... So, blender ... Rice cooker, dining set ... Sounds so yesterday for me ...

I mean, if you're the one receiving the gifts ... Of course you'll choose the best right ?? The rest, will be stored in the store room ... When someone else is getting married, balut jek ... Bagi orang balik, or bagi kat sedare mare ...

From my experience, it's better to buy gifts dr Semenanjung ... Sebab there's not much choice of weddings gifts you can find in kk ... With much2 better value of course ... The only disadvantages is to carry them hundreds kilometers away on the plane ... Kalau electronic appliances, masuk kat luggage pulak tu ... Memang agak tipis la harapan to see it still in the good shape when you arrived ...

If you're planning to buy electronic appliances, you might have to spend hundred ringgit more in kk ... But if you planning to transport the present across the sea, I would suggest you to go for bed sheets or cutleries ... Because you have a lot of option for those for the same range of budget ...

Like you can have a very nice bed sheet in kl for the price around RM250, but there's only a few choices you find in kk ... & you can have a nice cutleries set for RM120 in kl, but it will cost you RM150 ++ in kk ...

Anyway, I missed the chances to go to Sunset Bar that afternoon ... Because there's a lot of things haven't been done rupe nya, while I spent the whole day relax2 shopping ...

At night, I spent my time driving the bride's maid to the hall for rehearsal ... But what I found out was so disappointing to be honest ... Can you imagine the wedding planner went missing finding tables 12hrs before you reception ??

To me that is very bad la, I dunno ... Maybe my experience working in the hotel line will make me the worst bridezilla when I'm getting married ... Because when you're working in the hotel, setting for the next day's event are done before mid night ...

What made me hates the wedding planner so bad ?? The hall was unoccupied since 5pm kot ?? & the wedding planner just arrived at 10pm, when your guess will be arriving at 10am the next morning ??

I dunno how my friend can get so calm after the situation ... I don't think I will leave the hall until I see everything put into places if it is my wedding ... Hahah, bossy giler kau ni mokcik ... Later I'll make a full review on the wedding planner ... Then you'll understand, how the friends pun can get emotional after the wedding planner ...

The rehearsal wasn't really complete anyway, it's just a few plans on things they will do during the reception ... Since the sound system, pelamin & lighting is not ready yet ... & the best man just arrived from kl & having his beauty sleep ...

Tapi before the night ends, sempat lagi pegi Beach Club ... Hahah, it wasn't that impressing anyway ... It's look like Rootz, with Hawaiian theme night ... Heheh ... Or maybe it just me, who's so into Sky Bar & Luna Bar concept now ... Haih mokcik, gaji kau bukan 10k sebulan hokay ??

Owh, before I forgot !!! I went to Dave's (Linda's bf) room in Hyatt, wait for Linda to change that night ... & the room was to die for !!! Sea view, Dave even told me - 'You haven't see the sunset' ... Demn ... Bila la I can afford something liddat ...

Later ~

Borneo: Day 2

It's the wedding day !!! Hahah, it's not really the reception ... It's solemnization, we're up @5am in the morning ... Because the bride needs to get her make up done by 9am, yes ... Nikah 9am in the morning !!!

I got shocked as well, when I heard it's gonna be 9am in the morning ... Anyway, it's a done deal by now ... She's a wife now, dgn sekali lafaz ... Yeah, way to go boy !!! Hahah ...

So after a few hours b'gedix2 posing wif the girls, we went for lunch with the groom's family ... Then we sent back the bride & groom home ...

Newly weds b'camwhoring ...

Then ... We (me & linda) started merempat @City Mall, by merempat I mean - charging dying phones @starbucks ... Hahah ...

We met Anis for a few hours, then we went back ... Sebab dah xlarat sgt, been up & around since 5am in the morning ... I was a walking zombie by 4pm ...

We went back home around 5o'clock ... It took me a few hours before I can get down wif my nap ... But then, padam ...

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Borneo: Day 1

After a restless night, I slept till noon earlier today ... Been to the white bachelor party right after my arrival, I'll upload the picture later ...

White bachelor party for the bride ...

I had my lunch @4pm today ... Then jln2 satu Centre Point carik comfy sandals wif mom ... I got iPanema for myself, & mom finally satisfied wif a sandal from Bata ... Yahhh, wif the design, comfy & price issue ...

It's just, not so fancy one design ... But the price was sky high ... So, it's just not worth ... Unless it's the one u really fancy, & won't mind spending a couple hundreds more ... So, Bata is it ... Comfy, murah ... Xsuke, beli baru ... Hahah ...

So, I was in the bride's house when I 1st draft this entry ... It was the mlm b'inai besar, well we called it by that term in our culture ... It's when the bride got all messed up, or elders used to put it as pampered ... As u can't do anything, but let urself be manipulate by those applying the 'inai' ... Since once u get down on it, u can't do anything ... Not even scratch ur nose tau !!!

So, this is the 1st ever wedding I got sooo involved in ... I even get my left hand 'inai'ed ... Hahah >malu< ... So, I'm kind of the brides maid terjun for the wedding ... Hahah ... Actually driver, & any position available ...

Earlier today I got my hair done in Wisma Merdeka ... I forgot about the 3hrs procedure for digital curl, I ended up walking out wif the shops closing ... Hahah, mase pegi semangat giler jln kaki from Centre Point to Wisma ... By 8pm dah xlarat, I asked my brother to fetch me ...

Later I'll review on the salon, & current price for digital perm in kk ... Compared to last year's keamaatan's price ...

Rite now hav to stop talking about the 1st day here in Borneo, because it's getting more & more exciting as my trip approaching the end ...

Will be updating soon, I mean real soon !!! Like kejap lagi, hahah ... Lurve ~
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Road to Borneo: 8hrs be4 Departure

Just sent my parents to the airport ... They're departing now, then have lots of other things to do !!!

Jap lagi leaving for Damansara, to settle my credit cards payment ... Then will go for last minute shopping !!! Yay !!! Hahah ...

Will update on the shopping ... Hugs & kisses !!!

Road to Borneo: 22hrs be4 Departure

Actually, bosan giler ... I'm in the bus now, on the way to Kuantan ... Next stop, kl ... Was thinking of something interesting to share ... Tibe2 t'ingat my mum's busy moment before we went back to mummy's/daddie's hometown ...

Sblm balik kampung, normally ... My mum's kitchen b'kilat, ye la ... Nanti come back home to spoiled nasik in the rice cooker smell, tension kan ... But we're not that extreme to the extend sampai cover the furniture wif white clothes bagai ...

So, balik keje tadi @7am ... Verangan la kan, nak siap kan report materials ... But only can manage to get down & dirty with 1 jek, tu pun xsempat print ... Xpe2, naik cuti nanti buat dgn semangat ?? Hahah, nanti nak gi mancing la ... Oh, no2 ... Kene siap kan jugak mokcik !!! 2bln dah xpegi meeting bahan ni !!!

Ok2, ilek ... So, I started cleaning around 7.30pm ... I tot I can get things done by 8, pastu nak mandi ... Tibe2, (tibe2 la sgt) ... Pukul 9 baru siap, ok ?? Antara keje2 rumah yg saye buat sblm b'cuti seminggu:
1. Kemas peti, bagi barang2 kat dlm peti tu kat jiran ... Buah, my emergency dinner salads ... Vitagen simpan, sebab expired 07.06.2011 ... Hahah ...
2. Transfer cili boh dr blender to tupperware ... Hahah, saje nak tunjuk tahap kemalasan diri sendiri ... Dgn blender skali haku sumbat dlm peti ... Hahah ... Nak blagak peti haku besar pun yea jugak, bole sumbat blender ...
3. Check/cabut plug blender/rice cooker ... Check skali la, piyok rice cooker tu dah bersih or berisi lagi ...
4. Buang sampah ...
5. Lap stove ...
6. Wash sumer dirty plates/cutlery ... Include gosok piyok rendang hangit 2minggu lepas ... Hahah, 2minggu aku rendam ...
7. Spray2 febreeze ...
8. Sapu sampah ...
9. Kemas cabinets ...

In my case, I have a housemate ... So I have to make sure she's comfortable ... Especially when I'm not around la, sebab kalau haku duduk rumah org pun ... Tibe owner xde tu la jadik setan kan, malas2 tgk tv ape yg aku suke ... & makan chips sambil baring ... Hahah, kalau org lain ade malu nak buat perangai mcm tu ...

So, actually ... Xsempat nak clean the house, mcm mane my mum did ... In 2hrs ... Penat nox !!! Mox lagi, ngade2 mintak makan ... Tu xmasuk nak wipe the window glass, kemas living area ... & the bedroom ... Just sempat kemas the kitchen, & my clothes oredy folded this morning ...

Hahah, it's not easy rupe nye ... To be a super woman, work & house keeping ... I really need a maid, I guess ... Hahah, lempangs !!! No2, I need more practice ... To organize my life ... Camne nak kawen ni mokcik ... Hahah ...

So, I'm leaving to kk tomorrow !!! Dunno la, but this time around mcm xbrape nak excited ... There's a lot things left to be done here kot ... Heheh ...

Happy holiday guys !!!
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The Wedding Last Weekend

Dlm kepenatan from restless weekend, I went blogwalking & found some interesting tips to publish post from the phone ... I'll share the tips later if it's working ...

So, the lucky person for my mobile entry is - my cute cousin, Cikgu Aiza ...

Here's some pictures from the wedding yesterday ...

Hahah, over minah baju merah tu ...
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Managing the Break-Ups

It's not fair to emphasis (or better called brag) about the bright sight of dating ... Because there is the down side of all these catch & release ... Sometimes you'll get hurt, even it's just a fling ...

So lemme give you some of the break-up lines ...

Some guys may go, "So, thanks for everything ... Remember what we had these few weeks" ... I can tell you, these guys are actually a nice person ... Somehow, it's just not meant to be ...

Then there are guys went, "See you, when I see you" ... These are jerks, seriyesly ... Org over confident jek bole throw this line ... & normally they're player, you might hear this line right after the 1st date ...

Then there are guys who went totally shunt after a few incident, after a few days ... They just don't pick up calls ... Didn't reply ur text, or trying to avoid contact ... Honey, those guys normally taken ... Either way la, gf or married ...

I'm not trying to elaborate on men's behavior ... I'm sharing my tots on how I handle the break-ups ... Hahah, as I met new guy forth nightly ... So does the break-ups occur la ...

Normally, it's easy because - I already have somebody else ... So, no space to grieve ... Just jump on & enjoy the fun right before ur eyes ... :D

When it hurts, don't do stupid things ... Like trying to walk in the dark @3am in the morning ... Wishing something bad to happened, then konon2 u got the attention la ??

No !!! I just done that, pastu nampak babi gemok giler ... Baru nak ingat dunia ?? Hahah, kalau masuk spital kan naye ... Kat chart stated, 'kene rempuh babi' ... Hine kot ?? (This also applied on fake accident drama, ok ??) No2, & it's like 30% chances jek kot ... Or even less ?? That ur ex will care & come to visit ... Kalau die bz dgn gf baru ?? Bye2 la ...

Go treat yourself, manicure & pedicure ... Jangan pegi tengok wayang sorang2 !!! Nanti lagi depress ... Do something that doesn't need accompanier ... Like shopping, or settle kan permohonan pemgurangan bayaran balik loan MARA ... Hahah, things yg xperlu susah kan other parties ...

Some people may went crazy, trying to contact the ex ... According to my sister, she need an explanation ... That was me back then when I'm in UiTM ... I went crazy thinking, why that guy showed up @Puduraya (mase tu manade Terminal Bas Sepadu) ... If he wasn't serious about the break up ...

But as I grew older each year, explanation wasn't really necessary anymore ... I mean, they're still leaving rite ?? Especially when then eager to be wif someone else ... In my point of view, the explanation is more hurting ... So, I prefer to let it left unsaid ... Who cares what he thinks, he'd already be the past ...

This is my way of grieving, less talk ... More party ... :D - Tapi rambut sama hitam, hati lain2 ... You needs might be different from me, & the way we understand things might not be the same ...

It's just the matter of time, when you find happiness ... You'll forget about all the pain ...

Kisah Hati

Things About Me

I nak put 'Current Status' as the title, pastu mcm ... To straight forward ... Engineered sgt, chillax la kan ... Hari Sunday ni ... Heheh ... So di pagi Sunday yg panas ni, I stayed home ... Infected by flu + fever ... From socializing too much I guess ...

So I have all these time to check my fb, blog ... Then ... Hahah, I'm being dramatic ... Sorry ... Then tibe2 stat naik post yg dah lame giler - I Decided to Marry Him: Part II ... & Bintulu - Day 2 and the sequent Bintulu - Day 3 ... FYI, there's 2different guy in the 3stories stories ... :D

Xde la lame sgt pun kan, 2months ... But for me dah lame, I get over it quite fast ... Dunno, it's good for me kan ?? That I'm resilient ?? I bounced back after a few weeks (or days ??) after break ups ... >malu< ...

I appreciate the thoughts, I know people around me really care about me ... Tanye bile nak kawen, every now & then ... It's not like I'm pissed ke ape, no ... Not at all ... For now, I only can say - it's not the time yet ... Haven't found the right person yet ...

Thanks for all the thoughts, advices ... I appreciate that, but I think I can wait a little more longer ... It's a hectic time for this year, & I can't loose my focus on another relationship ... I'm moving back to kl in 10weeks ... When I'm settled wif that, then we start talking yahhh ...

I'm trying to make used of all the advice, for now ... It's time to give some space to 'me', trying not to be to hard myself ... Too determined to achieve my goals ... Tapi Linda, aku memang xpaham ape yg kau cube nak sampai kan smalam ... Hahah ...

Have a nice Sunday guys ...

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Just helping a friend ere ...

Sape nak beli dslr (nikon) ...

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Nites ...

You're Not the One

It's still early, but it has been very stressful to me ... My day started in a mess, my phone went off ... So the alarm didn't work, if it works pun ... I haven't set it back to my working schedule ... It's 8.30am ...

Then everything went wrong, I didn't get the breakfast I wanted ... & now, I'm miserable ... No, not because of the breakfast ... It's Muiz ... Owh, how I wish I can hate this guy ...

It's his birthday, I think ... I'm confuse either it's on the 3rd or 4th ... So, I've been trying to be nice to him ... After the fight we had last week ... We fight over his trip to JB, which he claims he already told me ... But he doesn't ...

I spent a lot of time with a re-connected friend recently, & he'd been advising me to be more patient in my relationship ... Open more space for receiving, & be patient about not having all item in my wishlist ...

So yahhh, I took his advice ... & here I am, crushed ... He gave me a good advice, really ... It's just Muiz, who don't deserve any more of this so called tolerance ... I dunno, how many time should I apologize on things that wasn't my fault ...

Back then in Melake, he got pissed over a prostitute pink lipstick stain on his shoulder ... Which is not mine, & who left the whole lips print on a man's body ?? Obviously those who don't get enough attention, & trying to tell me she existed ??

& wasn't it suppose to be me yg pissed off ?? Somehow I got blamed ?? Let's stop, going back into the past ... & move forward ...

As much as I want my kids to have UK education, I'm going to need my kid's father around on daily basis ... So that they have their father to take them to the clinic when the have fever, & help me cope when we're out shopping for groceries ...

The kids is only the reason for me, for my easy path towards a comforting future ... So that I don't need to work hard, to get the future I dream off ... Like when I wanted to go to Bandung for wedding favors, Muiz is cool with that idea ... I was so afraid that I'm not going to get that if I'm with somebody else ...

But no, it stops now ... If I was so afraid that I can't put on a designer dress on my wedding, I'll work for it ... Save, get extra job ... Whatever it takes ... Yahhh, might sounds cliche ... But I don't need a guy to have what I wanted ... I choose to be happy, instead of being lonely having to pay the price for having the title ...

I'm sorry Muiz, but boarding the plane to Bintulu last 6weeks was a mistake ... Just please, lemme be happy ... Don't come back looking for me ...

How I Get the Guys All Over Me

I did mentioned about meeting a new guy every weekends in my previous post ... Ala, when I told you guys about making my blog all about GUYS ... By 'meeting a new guy' I mean, have them sticked like glued all night ... Until - you set the limit ladies ... Hahah, poyo ...

Since I went out twice this weekend, I met 2 new guys ... Heheh, don't worry ... This post is not meant for bragging ... I wanna share my approach in getting the attention ... But lemme warn you, all the advice are very much experimental ...

From my experience ... It might not attract the 'fish' you desired, but it will surely land you a fish ... Depends on the guy's interest ... But I can tell you, it kept the guy calling in the morning ... :D

1. Play Angel

I always put on my good girl face when we hit the club ... Most of the time, it works ... Pick up line that will most probably pop up are:

- You're like the goddess tonight ...

- You paling sopan skali kat cni ...

- You look like a good girl (hahah, ni paling klakar) ...

Risk: Bukan all guys will be turned on by this budget baik act ... So you might get the attention from his friends instead of him ...

2. Ignorance

I gave one example in my post - Dear Carlos ... When you bumped into Syamsul Yusof & he said, "you look familiar la" ... Xpayah la gedix said, "owh, yeke ?? Why do you say so ??" Cheap ok ?? Instead, just reply - "No, no ... We never met" ... Or you can said, "owh, yahhh ... I looked like Vanidah Imran" ... Hahahhahahhahahahhah ...

Risk: Might chased the guy away, sebab poyo sangat ... Well again, depends on what kind of guy he is ... If he's the adventures type, then game on girls ... Because it's a challenge to them that they got ignored ...

3. Insulting

Sometimes I do, insult the guy I've been eying on ... Honestly, the guys do that as well ... Like when I put on my Zara raincoat, the guy went - "I tot it's winter" ... Lempang ?? It's actually meant to keep the conversation going ... Insulting will get the other party to react, normally they will tend to get defensive ...

Risk: Know the limit, don't go on too harsh ... Enough that it can be consider as a joke, make sure it won't hurt others ...

4. Don't Try Too Hard

Fake lashes, dirty dance (especially when it been repeated over & over again) ... Is just going to make it look like you're trying too hard ... Just stay classy, it's hot !!!

Risk: No effort at all will might be understood as not interested ...

5. Be Yourself

Don't try to be somebody else, you don't have to be bitchy like another girls in the table to get notice ... She maybe interesting that way, find a thing that you can do best to steal the attention ...

Risk: Some guys maybe found you not interesting ... Again, depends on the guy's taste ...

Bottom line, these might not work on the guy you expect to attract ... As different person have different taste, or intention ... Like a guy looking for fun, will approach girls that seems easy if you know what I mean ...

As I mention, these is the approaches I used when I went out jual saham ;p ... & mostly, it works ... Cume that Syamsul Yusof part didn't work ... Sebab die lagi poyo, hahah ... Level poyo juga penting, sebab org poyo ni confident level die tinggi ... So they can have another offer easily bile you jual mahal sgt ...

It might not be extreme, but as I said - it can keep the guys coming back ...

Extra Tips: be confident & get some good attitude ... Personality can shine better than your appearence ...