I've been thru an average of 3break ups a year, hahah ... Mesti korang nak ckp, "sampai biler" ... Or secare kasar nyer, "How can you be so stupid, & sampai biler nak learnt" ?? Come on, I can deal wif that ... That's reality check ... So let's not mess this up wif my counting, lemme share what happened on a few days after I broke up ...
Delete All Excess
This is standard procedure, delete fb ... Delete bbm, delete twittter ... In my case, abe ade gf lain ... So, kenape perlu kan delete ?? Instead of berpura-pura cool buat mcm tade pape ?? Sebab aku tanak tgk any hapdet from him & his gf ... & sebab aku gedik, suke hapdet location thru bbm status ... So aku delete him from bbm jugak ... Motif ?? It's one way or another, aku pun tanak die tau mane aku pegi ...
Example: Biler aku buat cupcakes utk lobi potential bf, mesti la aku nak upload my cupcakes kat fb ... Because of the cupcakes kan ?? Bukan sebab the potential bf, cehhh ... Hahah ... Anyway, I don't want him to see that ...
Get Over Your Biggest Fear
We used to say, "I will suffer without you" ... So, get over that ... I put on the shirt we bought together kat Rantau Panjang, & the skirt he bought for me ... The whole day, right after break up ... Ade tak ko nak t'kenang2 ?? Or sikit2 nak cium, ade bau kedai lagi tak kan ?? For me, it went just fine ... Thanks to AQ sebab kept me company, until ... Die gatai tgn pegi msg aku balik kan ... Ok, tu nanti elaborate more on next point ...
Example: Tada, hak hak ... (gambar xbleh haplot plak)
Get Sentimental
How sentimental can you be ?? Aku memang giler sentimental nyer, the 1st hundred notes yang abe bagi aku simpan ... Tapi sebab 1st movie ombak rindu, so aku tak simpan tiket wayang ... In case it's a fail relationship kan, nanti emo2 mcm dlm movie ... Too bad for me, aku tade cincin mahal yg tak sanggup nak baling cam Lisa Surihani dlm citer tu ... Hahah ...
Example: Aku pakai duit yg sentimental sgt tu, shopping ... The best part is, shopping beli baju baru nak gi dating dgn potential bf ?? Revenge is the sweetest thing ?? Takdo makne nye, biler mlm nanti ko hingat kat die balik ... But to me there's 2things here, 1st - get rid of the sentimental items ... 2nd - tenang hati aku dapat shopping ... Owh yahhh, almost forgot ... The other half of the hundred, aku pakai utk beli ingredient cupcakes for potential bf ... S#!t ...
Spend Time B'sama Orang yg T'sayang
This is important, you need someone by urside ... Mcmm aku, mek (gf my brother) slalu ikut dating sampai KT ... So, die sangat memahami segala liku2 dlm my relationship ... Biler sebut pasal abe finally kantoi pegi dating kat Kuantan ... Mek trus ngamuk sakan, hahah ... Ilek mek, ilek ...
Bukan xmo share dgn my mum, or adik cherry ... But I don't wanna break my mum's heart, since die suke sgt kat abe ... Biler aku ckp aku nak gi jumpe abe baru, bole nampak la reaksi kurang selesa ibu saya di situ ... Tapi masih mengekalkan concept yg same, no sad stories ... Xdo eh den nak cito kek omak den perangai ex boipren den tu, kire what passed is passed jek la ... We, all of us (including my family) move on je ... Hokay ??
Example: Gi alamanda, shopping bersama mek + adik lelaki + adik lelaki ... & buat cupcakes bersame mek ...
Don't Get In Touch wif Him or Anyone Related
Trust me, memang korang raser it's the greatest revenge biler ko ngorat bff ex boipren ko ... But it's going to hurt more in future ... Why do I said so ?? Sebab been there, done that ...
Memang la aku lepak dgn member2 (lelaki of course) utk menghilangkan stress ... Tapi lelaki ni, biler jumpe member ... He forgets everything else ... Like he forget kau ade kat seblah,, die men blasah jek citer ngan kengkawan die what happened in Vegas ... Memang la niat ko nak lepak2, hav fun & bukan nye nak korek rahsia ... Somehow kau akan tau, ape yg kau tak tau ... Sebab cerita2 yg t'kongsi bersame itu ...
Example: Biler aku lepak dgn FA, dr elok2 aku tatau what happened for the past 6months ... Tibe2 aku t'hapdet, because adrenalin penceritaan yg rancak ... Hehe, jan risau FA ... I still love u, but not like that ... Heh ...
Enough with that, next post ... I'm going to share wif you guys, how to know when he's not the one ... & if there's anything more to share on this, I'll update it in part 2 ... I'm still fine, emosi masih terkawal ... You guys enjoy the rest of this holiday, I'll get better in time ...
Last but not least, thanks for all the best wishes ...
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