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Monday, December 2, 2013

Dewan SESB: Contact Person

Morning,

Post ini khas untuk bride to be(s) / event planner yg gigih mencarik dewan untuk di sewa ... This issue are within things yg most hit kat my blog ... So I just figured it's necessary ... Since smalam baru je reply a few emails, hari ni ade org comment lagi ... Hopefully this will help ...

Should I remind you, dewan SESB ni antara yg paling hot kat KK ... So book cepat2 ... Nanti kempunan ... :D

Contact Person: Pn. Lily Tsen
Contact Number: 088-282273

Rate: RM 450/hr (Table & chairs included)
*min rental for 4hours.

Ni I share some picture tokeh maintenance SESB kawen hari tu ... HehehheheheheE ... Enjoice !!!

 Steady ~


Family, my parents bz plak kat depan ~

Makan Beradab -


 Ehhh, nak silat ??

Daddie ~

The mums ~

Mak Lang & Besan Mak ~

Reception Area ~

 Gegurls ~

Mak & our family friend - Raa ~

Gok, Angkol & makk ... Posing rempit, oh tidak !!!

Guest -  kazen2 ...

the aunties ...

From left - Pan Njang, Angkol, Mak Lang & Pak Uda
Standing - Mak Uda & Mak Njang

Ambek Berkat ~

Ehhh ??

Thursday, November 14, 2013

This is Manjung: Work Hard, Play Hard

This is the job that I decline back in 2012, korang bole refer entry Suratan atau Kebetulan & Loosing Your Values ... About a year later, I gave the HR department a call ... Notify them that I'm available to join them now ... The HR lady trus arrange for an appointment the day after, somehow I have to attend another session of interview sebab the head of planning department yg handle technical staff tade ... I've already forgot when was that last interview, I think that was before raya ... Yeahhh, sebab I attended a course in the office mase bulan puasa ... They offered me a drink, but I declined sebab respecting Ramadhan walaupun saye xpuase ... :D

During the last interview, that was when I had a crush on my boss ... Haha, a year ago mamat tu ntah baru balik dr site mane kan ... Selekeh je, now dah boss duk attend meeting tu la bole pakai smart2 kot ... Haha ... The next day mase attend the training course, I googled him & found out that he's married ... Then everything stops there, you guys know I had a strong crappy policy on married guys kan ?? & I still hold on to that very principle strongly, will never ruin someone's marriage ... Chewahhh ...

But ade jugak la fikiran jahat, 'will it change anything if I join them last year' ?? 'Did I made the move a year too late' ?? Jawapan nya ialah tidak !!! Memang boss aku dah kawen, xde effect pun saye join bile ... Last year when I'm about to join tu, he's having his first born ... Paragraph ini wujud semata2 mengelak kan rasa hipokrit dlm diri, kekkekkekeekkeke ...

Interview seblom raye, was waiting for their respond kengkonon nak kene tender resignation kan ... This part I will explain in my next entry why the word kenkonon tu even existed ... After raye also dorang diam je, sampai putus harapan la tunggu dorang offer ... After my brother's reception on end of September pun senyap lagi, mase tu still menaruh harapan la since I declared I'll be available by October ... Sampai kene carik other option to survive, sewa rumah pun dah delay sampai a month in stead of 1-2 weeks on August & September ...

Sampai ... 17th of October, I received a phone call ... Tanye biler free, I said I'm available immediately ... Trus kene gi kj, sign appointment letter ... Esok kene gi Manjung dgn boss ... Aku ni seronot sgt dpt keje, gi celebrate 'farewell' party la sgt ... Pagi bgn2 je dah 8stengah ... So I missed my first ever site visit, & late for my 1st day ... Sabtu masuk office jumpe boss, trus sign allocation letter kene hantar to Manjung ... 

Mase tu memang xpikir ape, boipren sumer ku tolak ke tepi ... Dlm kepale otak cume ade satu bende, nak balik umah pack barang ... Mengikut perjanjian asal, kene duduk Manjung 3weeks je ... Tu yg mcm eksaited je kan, keng konon weekend je nak gi Pangkor la ... 3weeks later ?? Here I am, still in Manjung ... Extended for another month, katenyer ...

None of the introduction above related to my main point in this post, but at least I give you guys an interesting start kan ?? Hihi ... So, same thing happened this year ... As I just joined the company, dpt another offer ... Rm 650 extra from my current salary, kau ade ?? Hehe ... But I declined atas bnyk faktor ... & bnyk jugak reference & good advice from people around me ...

Sebagai contoh, my father pun advice - 'more money normally come with more responsibilities, less hours for yourself' ... And someone I just knew share a very good advice - 'it's a test either you're greedy or being thankful' ... 

This year's choice not as stressful as last year's decision that I made ... Reason being - I always feel this job was meant for me ... Imagine, I went for 4 interviews before I finally join them ... & after a year, masih lagi rezeki utk saya ... Complete with penantian 2bulan for the job offer, fair & square la with the fact that I turned down their offer last year kan ?? Heh ...

As I claimed this was meant for me, it's not that easy for me to take care of it actually ... Kadang2 kite rase, 'sape la nak dengki, bukan bnyk pun gaji saye kalau nak banding dgn pengarah cawangan jalan JKR daerah Manjung' ... Tapi kite berurusan dgn manusia, ade manusia yg xpuas hati dgn semua bende ... Jadi kalau die dah nak dengki, die tetap akan dengki jugak walaupun kelebihan tu sebesar zarah ...

So nak kire mcm mane ?? Die tabur pasir kat rezeki awak, pastu awak tabur pasir balik kat die ?? Tu sebenar nyer terpulang pd individu terbabit ... Mcm saye, saye pk die ade anak ... Tinggal anak die kat rumah, sebab nak keje tolong suami ... Sampai hati tak kau ?? Kalau aku memang xsampai dik !!!

Question - "kenape awak nak pk pasal die, die pk pasal awak ke" ?? "Die tak pk ke, mcm mane awak rase kalau org buat mcm tu kat die" ?? Ok, kalau aku tambah lagi 1 soalan ia akan jadik menambah2 ... Haha ... So, jawapan - kan saya dah ckp tadi ... Tu lumrah manusia ... 

Saya pakai swift, die pakai myvi ... Die dengki la, walaupun instalment swift tu bole kaver pampers anak die sebulan + instalment myvi ... Kalau saye kene beli pampers ngan susu anak mcm die, mungkin saye tak mampu bayar swift ... Owh, & die xtau pun swift tu dah sangkut sebulan lebih ... Haha ...

Saya ade iPad + nokia 80 ringgit, die ade samsung ... Die tetap nak dengki, walaupun iPad tu sebenar nyer org sedekah je kat I ... Sebab susah itu org tak nampak, biler nampak org lain lebih ... Kite akan jealous ... Biler saye balik lunch bersama paper cup starbucks tu, org tak kan tau saye hulur reward card kat kaunter sambil berkata dlm key paling rendah - "dik, tolong check ... Ade free drinks tak, kalau ade saye nak redeem" ...

Nampak tak permainan nyer di situ ?? Saye penah pegi curve without spending a single cent ... Parking depan maybank - free ... Pastu pegi makan kat marche ... Bnyk duit mak makan kat marche ?? Memang takde, that was balance credit I've top up in few months ... Just swipe membership, 1sen pun xbayar ... :)

Got what I'm trying to say ?? Org tak kan tau susah kita, or maybe they know ... But they won't care that much ... Plus, I don't think people enjoy your story during hard time that much kan ?? They appreciate the the fancy food photos on instagram more, or the beautiful pictures of your vacation on private resort rather than the snap shot of balance in your acc ... Yelah, manade org upload gambar transfer duit bayar hutang ke hape kan ?? Sebok upload gambar duit berkepuk2, letak kat fb ... Motif ?? Tatau ... Padahal pegang duit tu 5mins je, boss suruh tolong cash kan duit nak bayar gaji bangla T_T ...

And another thing, biler kite terlalu obsess cerita/ambil tahu pasal org ... Awak jadik paranoid, biler nampak org discuss je ... Awak akan perasan mcm org discuss pasal awak, padahal tade ape pun ... Sebab that's what you do behind other's back, so you expect people's doing the same thing as you do ... 

Utk kesekian kali nya, it's a time utk muhasabah diri sebenar nyer ... Maybe saye pun xbole berterusan begini, open myself to the possibility utk org dengki ... But how low shud I put myself down in order to please people ?? It's your call, draw your own limit ... :) Boss saye slalu ckp, 'stay positive' ... Always think positive about others, world will be a better place tomorrow with one less negative thought in the morning ...

Ps: for the first time ever in my whole life, I felt nothing when someone confront me ... Maybe because I've already knew what's going on, so I'm well aware of what she's capable of ... :D

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Travel Writer

Hello !!!

Hari ni xkluar lunch, atas beberape sebab ... Antaranya, post traumatic effect dr 12jam focus buat report + sakit tengkok salah tidor mlm tadi ... Atau lebih tepat lagi, menyampah nak be around double faces b!+c#es yg tak habes2 buat unpaid report to my superior ... Nanti I'll explain further on that, but most reliable reason was that - baru je lepas makan nasik lemak kul seblas tadi ... Haha, nampak tak dramatic effect di situ ?? Hehe ...

Stat dah jatuh to almost half, since 4 bulan yg lepas ... Saye baru prasan, hihi ... Tapi memang dah lame giler tak update pun ... Now my life have been put back together, so korang akan prasan perubahan dr segi routine kehidupan seharian di situ ... Heh ... Sorry to encik Fifiey, kalau terase cam saye makin blagak whatsoever ... Aku memang camni kalau dah start keje, ;p ...

Kalau korang prasan my updates lately, are mostly about my island vacation ... Island hopping kat KK, my yearly trip to Perhentian ... And rite now, sebenar nyer saye tak kluar lunch sebab eksaited searching pasal Pulau Tioman ... Hadooo ...

This had bring me to the thought - am I going to change my blog direction into travel writing ??
Jawapan: Maybe not la, it's just something interesting I love to do now ... Since mostly I'll spend my free time doing that, so that will be the most interesting topic for me to share will you guys la kan ??

I still have other things which are not related to travelling that I found interesting to share, such as how I survive 6months unemployment ... My new job, which is in Manjung ... Every week bole pegi Pangkor, & related to travel ?? Haha, it's just happened to be that my new job is near to a vacation spot ... Xpenah pegi pun Pangkor tu sepanjang 3weeks spent here ...

I better go now, before I exposed my bloging activities to unwanted stalkers ... Hihi, have a great week ahead guys ~

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

This is Manjung: Dobi

#marahpunyepasal

I have a lot of other things to do actually, before the lunch break ends ... Tapi sebab dah panas hati sgt dgn dobi kat depan spital manjung tu, I took the trouble to write this & put aside whatever I'm doing ...

Dr smalam act dah xpuas hati, since he's the one mentioned about the express service ... Sebab I ckp, "nak balik kl ptg" ... So he suggested, qouted - "then take the express service la" ... He charged me extra 50% on that, so instead 10ringgit ... I have to pay RM15 for a normal laundry service ... Sumpah cekik darah !!! 

Considering I nak balik kl, maybe I'm going to need a few item from that laundry basket ... Redha je la bayar that extra 5ringgit ... Padahal it's possible je for him to do it in 24hrs ... Let say basuh sejam, sejam lagi dah kering kot ?? Die bagi alsan, 'deepavali' ... Dorang nak raye, so my laundry got pushed back ?? 

This afternoon, i memang xbole tahan ... Mase pick up tadi, sempat la die buat PR ... Termakan gak la sikit, until ... I reached home & unpack ... I cannot tell either my clothes is dry or still wet, mcm still bole rase lembap2 on the surface ... Tapi dah siap lipat bagai ... 

Memang aku pantang giler baju lembap2 ni, if I'm the one doing the laundry ... Everything must came out crispy, kalau camtu serbis ... Xyah bukak dobi la, harap PR je ... Tapi sebakul org maki, baik xpayah ... 

Will never send my laundry there again, after this rela balik buat sendiri kat kl je ... Or else, try to find another dobi ... Tibe2 terlihat my jeans, maybe shud check that ... Kang xpasal2 balik next week bau kepam je ... God bless you la pakcik ...

Till then, nanti I'll update a few other interesting topic under This is Manjung ... :D :D :D

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Perhentian 2.0

Sila rujuk entry Pulau Perhentian: Stress Free Weekend & Pre Perhentian untuk pemahaman serta penghayatan lebih mendalam berhubung post ini ... Pagi2 dah poyo, bagi ayat Kertas 2 SPM ... Heheh ... 

Actually tak berape eksaited nak post about it, since it's a trip yang sungguh menguji kesabaran ... Let's be nice and put it in proper words ... This time around, the vacation jadik a trip that made you need another trip ... If you know what I mean ... Lets not emphasis on that ... I'll just share you the few important points, & try not to includes too much details ... Hehe ...

We started the journey from my house at 2am, this time around I ade driver ... Thanks to encik Zaim for the pleasant ride ... Departed from Bangi at 2am, picked up Suraya kat Kelana Jaya around 3am ... Then baru ambek Linda kat Damansara Perdana around 4am & wait for another car kat Gombak around 5am ...

Was trying to get a light breakfast kat Mc Donald's, but decided to go Genting Sempah instead ... Unfortunately Mc D kat Genting Sempah tutup pulak on that very day, not just on that very day I think ... Sampai skarang mek D tu tak bukak2 lagi ... So we just stop for coffee kat Petronas right before tol Bentong, then drive straight away to Kerteh ... Sebab nak singgah ambek my tv from my colleague, and spent a night in Kuala Terengganu ...

We reached Kerteh around 8am, sempat la pegi breakfast kat jalan pegi airport and do last minute shopping kat Mesra Mall ... Depart from Kerteh around 11am, & reach KT by noon ... Nothing much we do in KT, besides souvenir shopping at Pasar Payang late afternoon ... Karaoke with my old friends from KT, then lepak2 sambil tahan mata yg terbuka luas ... Somehow otak dah stop working ... Yes, I'm a walking zombie in KT all afternoon ... Tak tido 36 ?? Or 48hrs in a row ...

I promised not to include too many details aite ?? Haha, still intro dah ntah bape paragraph ... Ntah pape, ok ... Erase all the memory, lemme bring you to the moment we arrived at Jetty Kuala Besut ... Arrived early since departed from KT right before 7am, gathed around a travel agency shop right in front the bus station ... Around noon then baru we leave for the island, reach there ... Makan nasik dagang the organizer tapau from Kuala Besut, then settled down in the room ...

Memang batak pun tgk air, 1pm kitorang dah terjun laut & I already got tanned ... Around 4pm gitu, this beach boy offer gi snorkelling for free ... Just pay the equipment rental, so it only cost us rm10 /person ... After snorkelling go back to the room & get ready for dinner ...

Dinner was so2 la, the thing about going in with the package is that you have to rush to catch up the dinner time ... So agak merimaskan actually ... Since u have to fix ur time to go back to the room & get ready, then there'll be a few free hours before the party mood kick in ...

Then it's party time !!! Dr kl, drive sampai sempadan Terengganu/Kelantan ... Jauh2 tu, last2 jumpe org kl jugak ... Org klang la, even my friend duduk Sungai Buloh ... Tiba2 ade lembaga berdiri tegak depan muka, tanya "reysha, ape kau buat kat cni" ... My gosh seriyesly, mcm dah tade tempat lain nak jumpe ...

Lepas party balik tido, the next morning breakfast on our own ... Not provided in the package, then go snorkelling ... Again ?? Haha ... This time included in the package la, spent the whole afternoon travelling by the boat ... Balik lepak coral bay, chilling kat Ombak ... Masing2 muka jem je, sebab dah penat snorkelling ...

Then it's party again, but this time just chilling ... Sebab energy level masing2 dah low ... Nothing much to say, lepas lepak2 balik tido ... Esok bgn pagi2 lepas gian mandi laut lagi, then it's time to go ... I've erased all the memories on the way back, seriyesly noting to say ... Sebab tak best langsung ...

Overall, for this trip ?? 2stars over 5, maybe ?? It's really a test for my ego la actually, maybe because I'm not in charge ?? Since I'm not the organizer, & it's not my car we're driving ... But I'm just being me, aku ckp sekali kau tanak dgr ... Then it's better for me to save my advice for someone who's going to make benefit out of it kan ??

I've created a discomfort situation within a friends I known for quite sometimes, for a friend who I just met for a couple weeks ... You should know where you stand, so lemme be clear that I have no intention to fix the few weeks friendship ... So stop trying to fix things, hashtag sila terasa ... 

Ok, ayat semakin poyo ... Time to go, kbye ...

Ps: malas nak carik gambar, how clear should I be about my feelings on this very trip ?? Haha ...


Sunday, March 24, 2013

A Weird Dream

Last nite was really strange, it was like a wrap up of a few dreams I had before ... Somehow includes everything happened to me recently ... The best part, I can remember the sequel ... Since normally mimpi ni all over the place ...

It started with a visit to RI's place, or maybe it started be4 that but that's the most I can remember ... RI's place mcm overly occupied, something like there are friends visiting & stuff ... Somehow his mum was there, & feel like a reality tv to please his mum ... The best part was that, I'm competing !!! With another girl I recognize so well in that dream, somehow I forgot the moment I woke up ... U know I'm not good in kissing S (even in my dreams, lol), so upon frustration of almost losing I left the house & went to a place across the road ...

The place I knew well, sebab been reappears in my dreams for a few times already ... It's a room that I always spent my time in, somehow it wasn't mine ... But I think I dreamed of the place earlier before all these dreams, since I got the idea of my missing keys for the drawer in the office was left in there ... Somehow I have to break into that room ...

So the place got commercialized, & I met someone I knew by the character ... But her figure was totally different, she's a mutual friend to someone who owns the room if I'm not mistaken ... Something like the room was turned into a shop, & I saw a glimpse of my boss at the counter ... From my previous job of course ... Somehow I still can't related the girl to anybody in my present ...

Upon not knowing her very well, I still follow her around on a crazy ride ... Then she left me on the side of the road, I have to walk a few blocks to get back to RI's place ... Owh, I was giving her direction to Seri Kembangan since her next destination is Mines ... Seriyes, memang ntah pape mimpi ni ... Then, I met KB ... It was a casual meeting like our usual hangouts, until I saw Senawang 2 & Senawang 3 standing around me while I'm trying to run away from KB ...

Senawang 2 & 3 ni are my bf's best friends dr sekolah ... So from that point, I just got escorted back to a place I'll never know sebab we never reach there & my mentally retarded brother dah jerit2 suruh bangun ... Somehow before it ends, we went to a shop to fetch my sister ... Yeah, adik cherry works in a shop ... A fashion designer's clothing line if I'm not mistaken ... Haha, it's getting more funny as I wrote I down ...

No need more elaboration on the dream, let's go to translation ...

1st Paragraph
It will never work out between me & my Remi Ishak (bukan the real Remy Ishak ye girls, don't worry about that) since obviously there is/was/always be another girl ...

2nd Paragraph
There was something that wasn't mine, somehow I kept using for my own good ... I really think this is job related ...

3rd Paragraph
Utk menguatkan lagi hujah saya dlm perenggan ke-2, I mentioned about that place got commercialized kan ?? That I lost my access to ... So I lost my job recently, lost all the privilege ... & a glimpse of my boss, that's I haven't figure out the purpose of his image popping out ... Hehe ...

4th Paragraph
I think that girl represent all the substance interrupting me along the way in my career, I let them in ... Even when I'm barely knew them, then they ended up messing my work ... Financial & stuff ...

5th Paragraph
Of course it's about my beloved en. Nasir, very protective & I'm well taken care ... Pasal adik cherry & fashion designing tu, agak merepek ok ... Let's just go design a building, okay ??

Huhu, so much for a long dream in the weekend that give me the rush to write on Sunday morning ... Not even my crazy brother manage to interrupt wif his desperate urge to get my response on whatever he's talking about ... I know he really loves my response, I just don't feel like sharing my ideas just to be undermine ...

Time to go, Sunday's breakfast are downstairs waiting ... Happy Sunday !!!

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Thursday, March 21, 2013

Breathe: Part III - Final

I had trouble sleeping ... Haha, giler tipu ... I just got off the phone wif Amirul actually, we go down to every details where things went wrong ... It's a process to forgive, I'm well aware ... But I'm not going back there ... I just can't, sebab the damaged is too big ... Far gone broken to be fixed ... Some of you from my Facebook might already know that I'm wif someone else now ... Yes, I'm going crazy over en. Naseer Hassan ... & Amirul Haqim is a history now ...

Let's put that aside, since it wasn't the main highlight for this entry ... So upon all those dramas at work, they let me go at the end of the day ... Memang la nak sumpah everyone who ambek share to destroy my career, but I think I dah ikhlas kan almost 80% ... Tipu la if I tell you guys that I'm fine wif someone causing me to loose my job kan, as a human ... I still got kelemahan untuk b'prasangka toward someone else ... For now, I keep telling myself - 'rezeki saya kat situ dah takde' ... Trying to convince my mum wif that as well, & not holding grudge towards anyone ...

Yes, it's office politics that get me unemployed ... But look into the bright sight ... I'll get the chance to do what I love to do, which is being excellent on what I can do best ... At this point I won't say that I'm good with reinforced concrete design, but I'm going to learn ... Make myself an expert, & be the goddess of RC design ... Which I can't do during my previous employment ... Maybe a year ago was a sat back, but let's put that behind and focus on the future ... Yes, this new job opportunity is scary ... But let's be positive and give myself more credits, I can do this ... Just like I can do well in QAQC back then in 2010, something I knew nothing about when I joined the consultant firm ...

I just need to trust myself, stack up all those confidence I had for my career ... Instead of wasting it on dramas & silly matters such as the ladies nights & the competition of being the bitch that stands out ... For whom ?? Haha, giler terasa wasted for the past couple months ... Now I see what Leenda concerned about, even my party animal pal who turned his life upside down pun have seen that issue for me ... Najeeb just give me an advice cum encouragement to start my new job ... Owh, how far apart have I let myself felt into ...

I know I shud have call en. Naseer instead of Amirul, but it's just something I used to share wif Amirul ... Once I've told Amirul, 'I miss the old me, who woke up late at 6am while I shud already reach Kuantan by then ... Somehow get up & leave, trus drive to Kerteh & reached the office at 10am' ... Yeah, I still show up for work even when I'm half day late ... My en. Naseer is very strict, and awesomely intelligent ... I just can't win the conversation, because he knows better ... Let's not make that an excuse, everything will be different from this moment ...

Loosing my job is scary, not really actually ... Hehe ... But then, let's put it in decent way shall we ... :D As I said earlier, maybe bukan rezeki saya di situ ... I loose my job, somehow my car loan got approved ... I've been living a jobless life since the past couple months, somehow I got a new job right after they ended my contract a week ago ... Which mean I'm already employed ... What else should I complaint about ??

I am, very much lucky ... I removed my fibroid, but still I can produce babies ... I have no reason to be ungrateful ... Maybe because of my contract ended, that guy replacing me got himself a job ... Maybe he needed that position more than I do, maybe this new opportunity is the best for me ... Things happen for a reason, so let's cherish that ... I have another week to go unemployed, before I start my role as a Structural Engineer ... So cheers to that ...

It's not the end of the world when you felt at one point and stumble, get back up and do better ... Yes, I'm very lucky that my stumble might looks like a hiccup to someone else ... But then keep a positive attitude along the way, don't let anyone keep you down ... But if it did, find a way to make yourself better each & every single day ... Don't be like me, drown for months then just realize I shudn't stay drown ... That I actually can swim back up, heh ... Let's make that a lesson, & don't forget the hard times you went thru that might be one of the thing that helps you reach your victory ...
To a new future ~

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Saturday, March 2, 2013

5 Tips on Handling Break Ups

I'm definitely not the person to give advice on relationship, as I'm really sucks in relationships ... But I went thru a lot, enough to share my thoughts on how to get over the painful break up ... Since sooner the better, so these are advices to survive your heart breaking moment & bounce back stronger ... Amirul was screwing another girl in JB while I'm sitting @Starbucks somewhere in Singapore writing this draft, well 80% of these was written on that very night ... Of course I didn't knew it right away ... But man, girl's instinct is demn good ...

1. Burn Down the Memories
Bakar gambar, pulang kan baju sebakul ... Or whatever it is, is just symbolic ... Memories can't be erase, you just have to deal with it ... Look back & find the most cherish moment ... Mcm aku seronot gi Golok wif my ex, & the first thing he bought for me was a skirt ... So I put on both skirt & the t-shirt we bought in golok the whole day, trying to find out what I really feel about it ... Nangis ke, t'kenang2 ke ?? Or try to find the smell of golok on it ... But nope, in my case I felt like nothing was missing pun ... I wasn't trying to recall the memory, it's all just my emotional moments upon being left ...

2. Don't Listen to Mariah Carey
Don't ever listen to Mariah Carey's songs the few day within the break up, choose Beyonce instead ... Sebab Mariah Carey cam insisted that your ex is still in to you, 'we belong together' bla x3 & it's so not true ... While Beyonce's are normally came in strong lyrics, represent strong women ... Just bounce back & find another man, if he don't appreciate you there a lot of other guys out there that will treat you well ... Bukan being sad & sorry, stay ... Hoping that he'll come around sooner or later ...

3. Go For a Vacation
Giler typical, hahah ... But it works ... During the last break up, I went to Perhentian ... Because of the technologies nowadays, most probably your ex might know about it somehow ... Luckily for me, my ex came back swimming ... Heh, but lemme tell you it's not like what you've been told in the fairy tales ... Bukan sumer ex akan come back running, but the vacation will help ... Experience new thing, find things that you might never know before ... From my Perhentian Trip, I got to learned how to enjoy snorkeling ... White sands & turquoise water, that's the thing I've been missing until this moment ...

4. Jangan Mengurat/Get Close with Someone Related
So in the other hand, for the case where ur ex didn't come back running ... Memang la rase mcm total victory when you can land a date wif his friend, ape kah lagi best friend ... But trust me, it's not going to help ... It happened to me back then in 2012, rase mcm gud2 la kan ... Perasan hot, member tu nak layan kau ... Hahah ... But truth is, it'll keep you connected to the ex ... & most probably will not be in the way that you expected ... So start fresh, find new options ... :D

5. Get Comfortable
Get comfortable with your new life, stop comparing ... Just enjoy what u have in present, stop comparing with the past ... Mcm aku sebok thinking I'm so comfortable with what I had wif Amirul, but in a while I'll start to appreciate whatever en. Naseer did for me ... Memang in some aspect rase selesa with the ex, but all you have to do is adjust ... Maybe en. Naseer tak mcm the ex, but find the good values in your present ... Instead of holding on to your past, & taking things for granted ...

Before it's too late, start looking out for yourself & move on ... Your relationship fails for a reason, so instead of putting your efforts on fixing what's already broken ... It's might be a lot better to put your energy and focus on building a new, better improved one ... Leenda was so worried about me upon the break up, that I moved on too fast with en. Naseer ... But things are going so good so far, why do I have to bring myself back & miss it ...

Till then, enjoy the present & just let past be the past ... Owh, it's really good that I have all these drives to clean my drafts folder ... I love Sunday !!!
<3 <3 <3

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Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Sabah Trip 2012 - Day 4: Part II

Lunch at Rainforest Cafe

The plan was to eat at Daily Jln. Gaya, I was craving for the delicious butter prawn ... Unfortunately for me the shop was closed on that day ... So we just go to BB Cafe, tempat saye bawak someone on 1st date dulu ... Hehe, somehow tutup jugak ... So we went to Rainforest Cafe ...
The menu is about the same dgn Daily, so I managed to eat butter prawn jugak during my trip this time ... Hehe ... Maybe because of the decor & stuff, the food is slightly expensive than Daily ... Taste, ok la ... But Daily's better ... For 3meals & drinks for 4person, it cost around rm70 ++ ... I'm having butter prawn with white rice, & so does c kudut ... Mamak ordered the noodle soup ...

Really, I don't have any idea what else to include in this post ... Haha, semangat giler divide sampai 4posts ... Maybe sebab I review it a month later, tu la end up running out of idea of what I actually planned to say ... But I'll conclude day 2 & day 3 in 1post, sebab there's actually one particular activity we've done that 2days ... Or maybe 2, heh ... I'll update with pictures along the way yahhh ...

Later ~

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Sabah Trip 2012 - Day 4: Part IV

AK 5133 (BKI - KUL)

I dunno if it's just not my day, but things don't really go well for me since early in the afternoon ... 1st it start wif packing & unpacking both my luggages depan drop baggage counters, then that guy at the counter was really annoying ... The bad breath sitting next to me, the suckie meal ... Now looking forward to see how things will go upon my landing ...

Let's go down with the details 1by1, starts wif the baggage ... Aku ni memang jenis malas nak beli extra bag on the spot, about 3days be4 departure baru aku beli ... Sebab might turn out that I don't really need it at all ... For instant, my flight from KUL to BKI ... I paid rm90 for 35kg, somehow I just use less than 25kg upon my departure ... Since mum will be going back on the 4th, so I just bought 15kg for myself the day earlier ... Ntah ape mak aku pack dlm bag tu, 1luggage already weight 13kg ++ ... So I hav to hand carry another one ...

Since it's not even 14kg, aku pun transfer la the extra handbag + perfume & a few other stuff into the luggage that will go in cargo ... Zipped, & daddie trus pegi wrap ... Sampai depan drop baggage, it's 16.1kg ... Goyang2 sket, it's dropped to 15.8 ... & that's it ... Pastu mangkuk kat kaunter tu dgn muke kerek, pegi ckp kl - "lebih 1kilo ni" ... Just sebab ic aku alamat Kajang ?? & seriyesly, 1kg ?? Siap bagi alasan, 'sampai kl nanti, they'll weight the bag again' ... Then he'll be blamed if he let in the overweight luggage without extra charges ...

U know what ?? Been hearing that excuse for years now, even since MAS was the only airline flying to KK ... I have a brother who worked wif the baggage handling contractor, there's no such thing !!! Tade keje nyer dorang nak weight that baggage again, once it done it's done ... Aku danak maki je mamat botak tu mase die ckp mcm tu, then he became rude giler & I just think it's not worth to argue wif idiot like that ... So we paid rm35 for the extra 1kg, the best part is that the rude guy siap tanye my mum - "ade 5ringgit tak" ?? Seriyes, kalau ade pun memang korang tanak bagi considering his annoying tone ...

I'll make sure I'll publish his name, kene check in the receipt since it's still wif my mum in kk ... But he's totally rude, if it was to me je xpe la ... Dgn my mum ?? That was unacceptable, plus we're the customer ... & we pay for a single freaking thing, even for the very few ml water they serve on the flight ... Even when they fucked up the system, we the customers are those who hav to bare all the cost ... I think the most common excuse is when they reschedule the flight, & u already paid for seat selection ... They'll tell you, ur selected seat was no longer available since the flight rescheduled ... Then 10ringgit tu ?? Just went down the drain, well done Tony Fernandez ...

Then we go down to the suckie in flight pre-booked meal, it's just a simple fried rice dgn ayam panggang ala sate which came in a really small portion - the chicken I mean ... Nasik standard la, muat2 bekas they serve food tu ... But totally not worth it, dgn spritzer kecik tu ... For sure you're going to buy another drink if you ordered the pre booked meal ... My advice - xpayah la order meal kalau stakat flight 2jam stengah ... Lagi la night flight, akan sengsara tahan mata tanak tido sebab mengharapkan the meal to be served ... By the time u finish eating, ade sejam je nak tido before landing ...

There's a few drama here & there mase kat departure hall actually, but better just leave it there ... Malas nak elaborate ... I'm sitting next to a bad breathe lady for 2 & a half hours, you shud know how much I prayed that she didn't yawn during my meal ... Lol ... But she eventually did, I was like ... Trying to cover my food, somehow don't wanna make it obvious that it might offend her ... Hold my breathe for 15secs, pastu continue eating my meal ... Haha ...

But that was the most torturing 2 & a half hour I've been on flight, haha ... Ok, that's exaggerating ... Hehe ... Nothing much upon arrival, just the normal super packed passenger standing around the baggage collection while they can stand somewhere else ... & my bag have made 2rounds around the conveyor before I can collect it ... Maybe sebab my last minute ticket almost cost me 1k kot, tu la aku complaint bnyk sgt ... Prasan cam naik MAS, hehe ...

That's all for now, my next trip to KK might be in either September or December ... Lexy Dewi is getting married !!! Hihi ... Dtg kl cepat sikit, bole blanje buat baju nikah kat cni ... ;p

Good day darls ~

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Sabah Trip 2012 - Day 4: Part III

Rock Shop Kota Kinabalu

My title dah bnyk sgt subject ... Hav to put the sub in the body, sebab too confusing ... For me je kot, maybe ?? Lol ... Anyway, since Puan Shazuwani brought it up about the 'hard rock cafe' last nite ... So mcm eksaited la mencarik 'hard rock cafe' yg diceritakan ... Turned out to be, it's just the Rock Shop actually ... The cafe is still under construction, maybe ??

I got myself a t-shirt, & 1 for stone head ... I never really know how much a hard rock t-shirt cost, hehe ... This is my 1st hard rock item, since I'm not really a fan ... Sebab it's hard rock Kota Kinabalu, really ... Yelah, it's better than hard rock Kuala Lumpur instead kan ?? Haha ... I think it'll be exciting for me if it's Penang, or Bali ... I dunno, maybe ...

But that's not the point that I bring this issue up ... Yeah, really ... I'm not trying to brag about my new hard rock t-shirt, hehe ... It was 'cold' in there as I walk in ... Yelah, since adik aku pakai faded jeans & t-shirt bundle je ... & I personally think brother cashier tu was transferred there unwillingly, haha ... Muke stress je ... But that wasn't the point either ...

I was trying to find the smaller size, when I started to ask the guy in the blue hard rock t-shirt - 'S ni paling kecil ka' ?? Then he just walked away towards the door & went out side ... Mase die walk away tu, aku dah rase b'salah actually ... Since I tot I've mistakenly treat a customer like a sales assistant ... Usha mamat tu atas bawah, he's wearing jeans & leather shoes ... Convinced that I'm guiltily asking for size to the customer, aku tanye la brother kat kaunter tu & masih menggekalkan slank Sabah in the conversation ...

Maybe sebab adik aku yg sengal2 ubi tu lidah dah keras, xbole ckp Sabah ... Brother tu tanye, "Where r u guys from" ?? Aku pun tatau biler adik aku jawap 'Selangor' ... Seriyesly, Selangor ?? Then he asked me again, "you pun, Selangor jugak" ?? So my answer was something like - yeah, we're from 'there' ... Since the conversation was not really interesting, ade baik nye aku xyah share & menghilangkan momentum ayat budget up dlm entry ini ... Lols ... Still, masih bukan my point that I brought up this issue ... ;p

As I paid for my t-shirt & stone head's, adik aku gedik2 la nak pilih baju die pulak ... Tibe2 mamat yg aku ingat customer tadi walked in, followed by a chinese couple ... Gelak2, & shout out - "Welcome to Rock Shop" !!! Defuq man ?? Apsal, tade prospect layan aku dgn my brother is it ?? Seriyes, potong !!! Next time, I'm sure will walk up straight to the cashier guy & ask for help from there je ... If you're still there in my next visit la yea blue shirt guy ...

I can go on, but I just don't feel comfortable discussing racism in my blog ... So yeah, sales assistant kat Rock Shop KK sucks ... Just one of them of course, the other guy was helpful during my brother's purchase even he's doing something else behind the counter before he came around assisting us ...

I'm not going to make excuses like I always do, 'maybe it's not my lucky day' or 'maybe that chinese couple is a good friend of his' whatsoever ... Just sharing my experience, & hope I won't get treated that way again in my next visit ... While for those in KK, enjoy the Rock Shop & happy shopping ... Now 1 of my must do list when I'm in KK is to visit the Rock Shop, :D ...

Next is my another bad experience with Air Asia ...

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Sabah Trip 2012 - Day 4: Part I

Dah sebulan berlalu, I already forgot what exactly I have planned for part I & II ... Hehe ... Owh, yeah ... Swimming a.k.a review on UCA2 which stands for University Condo Apartment 2 ... Located in Tobobon, somewhere near Menggatal ... Xde la jauh mane from town, even dulu mase skolah ... Sneaking out bawak kete pegi menggatal tu, rase mcm dr kl nak pegi seremban ... Haha ... Xpayah nak perak sgt kutuk Sabah tak maju, sile google jika anda tidak tahu ...

My partner in crime - c kudut ... Sebab die pun jem kene hangkut balik sabah while he wanna spend the holiday wif gf, hehe ... & I have a lot of time to kill since I don't have to think or make time for 'something else' ... Bgn pagi2, berebut tgk Greys Anatomy vs. Family Guy dgn c kudut ... Habes season 8 baru gi swimming, which means kitorang turun gi swiiming kul 11pagi ... Haha, kul 11 actually dah tgh hari buta kat sane ... Since the sun rise/set an hour early in Sabah ...

Since we just went back from island hopping the day earlier, so tade la hadap sgt nak swimming sebenar nyer ... Just there to check out the scene ... Conclusion - xpayah la pegi time2 cuti ... Pagi2 full of kids jerit2 berebut float ... Hehe ... & the pool xbesar mane, so it's crowded & tak bebas nak b'gerak ... But on overall, I mean the environment ... Security & parking convenience, UCA2 is awesome !!! I love the penthouse, even we stayed at the 2bedroom apartment je pun actually ...

Penthouses on the top floor, with 10x10 feet balcony ... Seriyesly, balcony that big ?? I imagine a lot of fun activity up there ... If only I have millions to spend, I'll definitely buy a unit :D ...

Let's move on, next - lunch at Gaya Street ~

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Monday, January 14, 2013

Breathe: Part II

I'm suppose to write about stone head aka papa chicken in this next post, tapi cam nak sambung membebel pasal my job ... Haha ... Btw, reading blog from bold 5 adalah awesome !!! Haha ... But I'm planning to get myself iPhone 5 anyway :D ... Work sucks, it still sucks ... I've sacrificed my visit to 'akar' last nite, sebab pk I wanna put 250% on work today ... Since my leave will start tomorrow, somehow they still find ways to get me fucked up ...

'They' in the picture is 2 losers, which clearly with balls ... Small balls maybe ... Since you know la my nature of work kan ... Anti-feminism, maybe ?? I woke up this morning with a positive attitude, even it's not really +ve actually ... I got up from bed with the idea - I grew up to be the mean girl, why am I letting myself to be bullied ?? I got this bubbly personality, & a pleasant look that make things easy for me ...

Memang la aku slalu ckp, it's not the look that get me the job ... But the look definitely give me an easy pass, to book a place in the interview sessions ... Then the rest is how I sell myself to the interviewer ... Meaning, nobody likes the kind of impression on blondes aite ?? What I'm saying, beauty means nothing without brain ... Ok, I'm explaining myself upon declaring I have a pleasant look ... Which is not necessary, since aku dah merepek nak divert the fact that I said so ... Lol ~

It's just that, there's one thing my dad used to say when I was little - "muke cantek, tapi perangai tak elok nak buat ape" ... I think he said that when I was 12, somehow it nailed in my mind all these while ... Tade hubung kait dgn my point in 3rd paragraph, haha ... But my point is, dah la muka pecah ... Perangai cam haram plak ... At least let people say, 'harap muke jek hensem, perangai ntah pape' ... Or, 'biar muke tak hensem ... Jgn busuk hati' ... Get it ??

So let's go back to the story about those 2idiots with no balls ... I've promised myself not to let them ruin my day, no matter what ... Because they're the losers, & not me ... Just because at some part, things went easy for me ... It doesn't mean that I didn't put any effort in it, & lemme tell you ... Those idiots are really trying to ruin my day, almost everyday ... It always like, I shud help him keep up ... Somehow, he will never help in making things easy for me ... Unfair ?? Standard la, keje dgn typical melayu ...

Contoh senang - we're both teachers ... Aku cikgu lukisan kejuruteraan, jantan bengong tu cikgu math ... Let say he's absent, I help attend his class ... Suh la, the student die buat math homework kalau aku malas nak study the syllabus ... Kalau aku rajin, bole la aku ajar bebudak tu fraction or probability ... Something easy, no brainer for me ... But then if he's the one taking over my class, mampus die biar je student aku layan bbm/angry bird & sebagainya dlm lab LK since he claim he knows nothing about technical ... Nampak board dgn T-square je, mengalabah beruk ... Metaphorically ...

So yeah, I won't let those bastards ruin my day any longer ... Nak marah, or get me fucked up ... Let them be, I'll stay positive & run the rest of the day without letting them bring down my self esteem ... Memang aku hari2 pegi office consultant tu utk kene maki, but the best part is that - my team (by that I mean 'someone' doing about the same role, share equal power & responsibilities - obviously that loser wif no balls la kan) is not really helping in making things better for me ...

So what if I can get things done easy ?? Quoted from one of the no ballers pun, "u senyum2 sikit je, dorang sign" ... So what ?? That's a gift, that make things easy for me ... Why do you have to be jealous ?? Try everything to make things hard for me ?? Rezeki masing2 kan ?? Like I always say, 'Kalau kau memang bagus, kau tetap bagus jugak ... No matter if you're surrounded by other great persons, you'll always be great' ... So it will be not necessary to bring down your colleagues ...

Talking about bully ni, dulu pun same jugak ... I used to call my draftsman pussy, haha ... I was so tough at that moment, that I manage to stand up to 2 mentally retarded guy ... At the end of the day I did make it up with one of them, siap bole mengumpat the other guy same2 ... Yeah, it ended up wif drama baling bookshelf ... But I think we cud duduk satu meja, lepak minum one day ... Even I do have a police report against him, hehe ...

I can feel my points is all over the place dah ni, hahah ... So let's conclude this - don't ever break for those bullies ... Die nak campak ur paperwork on the floor, or torn them into pieces ... Let them be ... I've been thru that, there's no shame to me & I admit ... There are times when I came back to my office & cry in the toilet sebab stress sgt ... But never, ever give give up ... Never let them bring you down, don't ever torture yourself mentally for these kind of bully ...

I got screamed almost everyday, like I have no feelings ... Pretend to be an idiot, because he need to know he knows it all ... At some point, when they ask me a question ... It's better for me to say 'I dunno', rather than voice out my opinion since they're going to say I'm wrong anyway ... But never, I cracked in front of them ... Or go back to my desk & draft a resigning letter right after ... So yeah, stand up for yourself & face the bullies ... If you're not brave enuf to voice it out, at least prepare yourself mentally & never let anything bring your self esteem down ...

Till then ~

Ps: my boss informed me that I'm gonna be transfered due to this 'irreconcilable differences' by end of the day ... I always say, 'don't mix my personal life with work' ... But trust me, at the end of the day it'll always come down to - nothing is personal ...

I'll update on another part of breathe for my recent status soon, sabar2 ... Hihi ...

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